Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (may Allah have mercy on him) gave 10 valuable advices to his son to have a happy married life

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 *  Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (may Allah have mercy on him) gave 10 valuable advices to his son to have a happy married life *

 Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (may Allah have mercy on him) gave his son * 10 advices * on his wedding night

 Every married man should read them carefully and put them into practice in his life

 You said my son, you can't have peace of mind at home unless you adopt these 10 habits in your wife's case.

 So listen to them carefully and plan to act

 * First: Women want your attention and want you to express your love to them in clear words, so from time to time, make your wife feel your love and tell her in clear words how important and beloved she is to you.  (Don't assume she'll figure it out herself - relationships always need expression)

 ✍️Second: Remember, if you are stingy in this expression, there will be a bitter rift between the two of you that will grow over time and end the love.

 ری Third: Women have a hard temper and are more cautious than men, but they also know how to take advantage of the gentle temperament of a gentle temperament.  Have peace

 وت Fourth: Women expect from their husbands what a husband expects from his wife ie respect, loving words, outward beauty, clean clothes and fragrant body so always take care of him.

 * Fifth: Remember that the four walls of the house is the kingdom of the woman, when she is there, it is as if she is sitting on the throne of her kingdom. Do not interfere in her kingdom and do not try to snatch her throne as much as possible.  Be entrusted with the affairs of the house and give him the freedom to dispose of it

 Holiday: Every wife wants to love her husband, but remember that she has her own parents, siblings and other family members with whom she cannot be indifferent, nor is it permissible to expect such a thing from her.  Do not allow competition between family members, because even if she is forced to leave her family for you, she will still be restless and this restlessness will eventually take her away from you.

 Seventh: Of course, a woman is born with a crooked rib and there is beauty in it. This is not a flaw at all. She looks as good as her eyebrows look good in a round shape, so take advantage of her crookedness.  And if you enjoy her beauty, even if you find it offensive, do not try to straighten it out with harshness and bitterness, otherwise it will break, and this rift will eventually lead to divorce.  But at the same time, do not do it in such a way that you go away believing every wrong and unjust thing he said, otherwise he will become arrogant which is detrimental to himself. Therefore, be moderate and run things wisely.

 یں Eighth: Disrespect and ungratefulness of the husband is often in the nature of women. If you continue to be kind to him throughout your life, but if there is any shortcoming, she will say what you have heard from me till today.  Don't worry too much and don't fall in love with it because of it. This is a small flaw in it, but there are many virtues in it.  To love and to pay.

 Ninth: Every woman has some days of physical weakness.  In those days Allah has also given him exemption in worship, has forgiven his prayers and allowed him to delay his fast till he recovers. Only in these days you can be with him.  Be kind to him as Allah has been kind to him, just as Allah removed the worship from him, so you should reduce his responsibilities in these days considering his weakness, help him in his work.  And make it easy for him.

 Tenth: In the end, just remember that your wife is like a prisoner about whom Allah will ask you.  Just deal with it with the utmost kindness.
 Inshallah, life will be pleasant.
 

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